Yet, that's life. There's good and bad, mistakes, and things that happen beyond your control. It's been really hard to sit back and watch you make mistakes, but I know in the end they have made you a better person. I truly hope you have learned from them and put that knowledge to use in the future. I have done more hand holding, figuratively not literally (I feel you would die of embarrassment if it were) than I did when you were learning to walk. I can easily say year sixteen was a big year of growth for both of us - you as a teen and myself as a parent.
You are strong, opinionated, and voice when you see injustices. I am beyond proud of how you have stood up for the things you believe in and help those who can't help themselves. That has always been one of your most amazing qualities. I hope you never lose it and only use it for good.
Our family dynamic changed a lot this year, as you preferred to work, sleep, and spend time with friends/girlfriends than hang out with the fam. I appreciate the change of priorities and loved seeing you create a life of your own. You continued to thrive in theatre, taking on a lead role in the fall play, Almost, Maine and auditioning for the spring musical. You got out of your comfort zone and nailed your numerous costume changes in your ensemble role in Annie. Despite being in a drawing and painting class, you took a step back from your painting. Instead, you focused on writing and going on long walks late in the day. You also turned into a night owl somewhere in the last year and it's not unusual to find me (a reformed night owl) in bed well before you're even thinking about it.
Some of your favorite things include: Dr. Pepper, sushi, cooking, playing video games, playing games in general, long walks after dark, going out with friends, art, laying in bed, your ear buds, thrifting, movies (especially scary movies), working, and being at home (when you're not out with friends, at school, or working). You appreciate alone time and taking time to recharge. Your hair got longer and curlier and fluffier. At 6'4 we joke that you're a giant, but really you simply stand out in the crowd.
Thank you for being our first. Even in the tough times or when I don't know what to do, you make it easy. You give me grace and as a mom, I can't thank you enough for that. I have so many wishes for you as you embark on your last year of high school, but instead I'll go with gratitude for letting me have a front row seat to your life. Continue to think big, grow, adventure, and learn every day. I love you always and forever!
Love,
Mom
